Monday, December 28, 2009

♪♪ how i feeling 2day!! ♪♪


A simple bitch will take you where you need to go. *A real bitch throws you her keys and says it needs gas in it!

A simple bitch will tell you not to fight, it aint worth it. *A real bitch will say "Beat her ass" and look at the crowd and say bet nobody jump in.

A simple bitch will let another bitch know she can back the fuck up or get knocked the fuck out. *A real bitch will just knock her the fuck out!!!

A simple bitch tells you, she's had enough to drink. *A real bitch tells you we need another shot, we 'bout to get fucked up!

A simple bitch goes to the club with you and sits down. *A real bitch goes to the club with you and says lets show these simple bitches how we do it.

A simple bitch hates it when she calls after you've gone to bed. *A real bitch pops up at your house, talkin bout I know you aint in the bed, on a clubnight!

A simple bitch seeks to talk with you about your problems. *A real bitch seeks to take care of all your problems, rather it be a gun, a knife, whatever will take a fucka out.

A simple bitch wonders who your new man is. *A real bitch knows that mutha fucka's first name, last name , his birthday, where he live, who he related to, what kinda car he drive, where he works, how many babies mama's he has, and how many bitches trying to holla at him right now!

A simple bitch thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument. *A real bitch lets you know that was fucked up but we still girls.

"A simple bitch expects you to always be there for them. *A real bitch knows you will always be there for them, they don't have to expect shit.

A simple bitch reads this e-mail, relizes that she is a simple bitch and then deletes it. *A real bitch passes this to her real bitches without thinking about it.

Friday, December 18, 2009


******

** Today I Learn**

Today I learn to live alone.

To make a path thats all my own.

No longer treading on familiar ground,
My voice, my place crying out to be found.

No more crutches, handouts turned away.

Its time to fall on my face...

My way....

Preparing for pain..

...regret...

...success...

Time to make myself a woman..
...More or Less...

So tired of hiding behind your shadow.

I want to test MY limits.
See how far I can go.

Yeah, it'll hurt, its supposed to...

...Ill be okay...

Ill win....

Ill lose....

..Ill live to see another day...

So let me go
I know Im ready.

I wanna face the world.
Make my own feet steady.

****

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Thank You, Lord for providing these sister's to be a part of my life!!



TO ALL THE WONDERFUL WOMEN I WAS SO blessed TO KNOW..........

Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, It empties today of its strength.




Just Beautiful!!

What makes me weak? My fears.....

What makes me whole? My God.

What keeps me standing? My faith.

What makes me compassionate? My selflessness.

What makes me honest? My integrity.

What sustains my mind? My quest for knowledge.

What teaches me all lessons? My mistakes.

What lift's my head high? My pride, not arrogance.

What if I can't go on? Not an option.

What makes me victorious? My courage to climb.

What makes me competent? My confidence .

What makes me sensual? My insatiable essence.

What makes me beautiful? My everything.

What makes me a woman? My heart .

Who says I need love? I do.

What empowers me? My God & Me.

Who am I? I AM A PROUD STRONG WOMAN!

Friday, December 11, 2009

Kelis




Her style is timeless,

OhKay i dont have a Baby Daddy "i saw this n just wanna to share dont mean to offend ne 1 just share this thoughts on the matter..

Bitchie Mail: Stop Referring To Him As “Baby Daddy”…( this came 4. NecoleBitchie.com ) ck out the web site its a good 1.!!

Looks like I may have ticked off a reader with my use of Baby’s Father in my caption of Erykah Badu and Jay Electronica yesterday. I have nothing but respect and admiration for Ms. Badu and didn’t mean any harm. Here’s her email. She raised some good points:

I’m an avid fan of your website, when I turn on my computer in the morning you’re the first thing I check before my emails. I respect your character that you portray when in giving your opinions and insights. This morning while reading the post on Erykah Badu and her “baby father” it rubbed me wrong. I guess it’s because I’ve been trying to convince young black women why that statement is so ignorant and the effect it has on us as a people.

When people say that young black women are no longer striving to be wives (not in the title but in the sense of value you have to that man) they are right. Too often when I walk down staircases of project housing I see what normally would be “James loves Janet, 2 getha 4 eva to be replace by the latter with ’soon to be baby mother”.

Many of these young impressionable girls and even some undereducated adults believe that having a child with someone replaces the commitment that marriage once use to represent. I’ve talked to women when asked if they would marry the man they’re willing to produce a child with and almost always its an emphatic NO. Why? when a child is more of a long term agreement than a marriage which can be broken.

I would like for our women to stop selling their selves short. When you’re refer to yourself as a “baby mama” there is such an impersonal tone where you see there was no seriousness in a situation where they should be. Both you and a man decided to have a child together before your relationship reached maturity and since you are not important enough to regard with a title that showed a connection that informal/impersonal “baby mama”/”baby father” is attached to you. Every time a man tells me he has a “baby mama” I don’t think of an ex-girlfriend he was in love with and shared some type of relationship, it gives me the impression of a one night stand, or a jump off he accidentally got pregnant and she kept it to trap him because that’s the tone he uses and with disgust and regret.

Now I’m not insinuating that your usage promotes this but I would like if we all would stop using it and referring to ourselves as such. We are mothers of their children, they are fathers of our children, they are our exes, there was a relationship until that point of conception or there should have been. Stop having children with men we only have dated for a few months, that is not a symbol of commitment. We as a people need to develop fully emotionally before we pursue these these things in life. A person who hasn’t reach emotional maturity cannot lead a child there themselves or a partner.

Thanks for allowing me to share -Mrs. Jefferson

Thursday, December 10, 2009

ramdom thought

with my pen to my pad ... im learning to be silence in a room full of noise .....



**Ms. Fortunates' Pain**

No, I may not live in the poorest of places,
But trust, I know what the essence of pain is.

No, my family is not on broken ground,
But my life has had plenty of Ups and Downs.

Simply because I don't fit the "status quo"
Of poverty, out on the street no where to go,
Doesn't mean I don't know how it feels to be alone,
Sunshine on my face,
Pouring Rain in my soul.

Insecurity is my struggle.

Self-consciousness, my pain.

The feeling of belonging, is what I cry to gain.

But because I live lavish and people think I'm rich,
My hurt gets overlooked,
They say "Look at that stuck up bitch!"

Its not that hard to see my pain,
Its just as clear as day.

But because my status surpasses yours,
You chose to look away.

The hurt, depression swept under the rug weather it be pricey or not,
So just like you I cry at night weather I'm rich or not.
Now abide , faith, hope, love, these three, but the greatest of these is Love. I Corinthians 13:13

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Manlyn Monroe


"I am good, but not angel, i do sin, but i am not the devil,i am just a small girl in a big world trying to find some love.."